You are a lovely
Unicorn!
Try the BEST daily habits and practices for your Archetype!
Your Relationship Archetype is a Unicorn
Independent, fiercely loyal and naturally mysterious. Men can’t quite figure you out (and that’s sexy!) See them rise to the challenge and pursue you consistently once you have the right plan for vulnerability.
As a Unicorn:
You tend to give off this “independent woman” sex appeal that intrigues quality men which is great!
Men want a true partner, and your self respect triggers their respect for you.
Vulnerability, softening and feeling deeply cherished by a man can be a little more challenging
The great news is…
You have a huge potential to transform your love life - much more than other archetypes!
You may think it’s difficult to open up and really let men in but I promise you, you CAN do it!
Dating tips!
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Protect your social battery
Dating coaches ALWAYS tell Unicorns to build lots of options which is great but cause isolation when you burn out. Be selective.
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Sisterhood
Fun time with women will help you soften with men. Unicorns often isolate so prioritize women who make it safe to be real and let your guard down so it becomes more natural!
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Is alone time OK?
Of course, we all need alone time to recharge! But don't use it as an excuse to isolate completely. Mix it up with group hikes, relaxing yoga classes, sound baths… to let yourself rest around others.
Dating tips!
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Set limits
Unicorns can't handle a lot of intensity early on, so try to keep your dates short (1 hr max at first!) and limit time together to once per week to avoid losing yourself.
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Receive more
Unicorns are used to independence and need to practice receiving. Let someone buy you coffee, accept compliments without deflecting.
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No bodyguards
Unicorns tend to bring friends as buffers on first dates or only date in group settings. Practice going alone and let it feel awkward at first, that’s how you find safety.
Fictional characters with your relationship archetype:
Miranda Hobbes (Sex and the City), Arya Stark (Game of Thrones), Rey (Star Wars), Katniss Everdeen (The Hunger Games) — all proud Porcupines!
Where This Pattern Started
Beautiful, dazzling and rare—but mess with you and get the horn. You learned somewhere it wasn't safe to have healthy boundaries. "No" wasn't an acceptable answer. Your protection mechanisms weren't honored, so you developed a horn. While useful in childhood, now it scares men away and feels too heavy. Every time you have to use it, you feel deep shame—why can't you put it down?
Why This Feels Difficult to Break
Because underneath the horn is a beautiful, sensitive spirit who's still blaming herself for other people's lack of boundaries. As a child, you survived by making their bad behavior your responsibility. But it wasn't your fault. Your healing comes when you forgive yourself and realize: there was never anything wrong with you. Thinking that way was a way to make sense of something that was far beyond your pay grade as a child.
