Now, married to a man I adore, living in NYC in my dream apartment, with our beautiful baby (and pup), I can finally say — I’m home. I’ve arrived.

I wake up to the sound of my baby laughing, a man who loves me fiercely and protects me (who I’m wildly in love with, too).

We dance in the kitchen,

We parent like lovers (not martyrs), we’re always laughing…

And most of all… I feel free. That old ache and hole is gone.

What I know to be true:

If we are feminine women, femininity is our natural state.

We don’t have to “find ourselves” or “become feminine” or “attract men”… we’re born with it.

But we get lost in an attempt perform, achieve and be the “perfect” woman

…. But perfect doesn’t exist.

Most of us have survived on very little nourishment (an empty gas tank, so to speak) for very long.

Our love lives reflect that internal emptiness.

So to turn it around, we first have to remember:

Your sensuality, radiance, beauty, femininity >> all those feel good things are first and foremost a gift for you.

Focusing on “what and who do I need to become to get what we want?”

Takes us out of the magnetic, juicy feel-good place we’re made to attract from.

God wants to shower you with gifts, blessings and abundance… if we can only trust there’s more for us than what we’ve always known.

What if it’s not by depleting ourselves that we get what we want?

But by allowing ourselves to have more?

We can’t pour from an empty cup, but a woman will always give from a full one.

Not sure where to start?