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Your Relationship Archetype is a Bunny 

Passionate, charming and full of life. You can easily attract men who can handle all of you full spectrum—once you learn to regulate your nervous system and find the middle ground."

As a Bunny:

  • You naturally inspire men to want to slay dragons for you.

  • You thrive in chaos but fear calm — intensity is your love language.

  • Your nervous system is used to being in fight or flight.

The great news is…

Your intensity will attract a calm, grounded protector who loves how deep you are and he’ll provide a safe space to finally rest. You don't need to dim your fire, and you deserve to feel calm. if you're ready to find your middle ground, let's get back on track!

Dating tips!

  • Slow your roll

    Bunnies can’t handle a lot of intensity at once. So try to keep your pace slow and your dates spread out. You need to have a few solid options of men to help prevent getting too hooked to one man prematurely.

  • Filter for stability

    You tend to attract anxious men who match your intensity with chaos of their own. Instead, look for men who remain centered in a storm and don’t get pulled in. You’ll see calm is anything but boring.

  • Don't suppress

    Coaches ALWAYS tell Bunnies to "be feminine" and fake calm being calm… but eventually you explode. Try asking for what you need in simple ways, often. "I feel overwhelmed." "I need a minute." "That hurt my feelings.”

Femininity tips!

  • Have hobbies

    Bunnies have natural charisma that lights up the room. Channel your passion into hobbies like dance class, art, performance. When you want to isolate, create or be social in community. Practice showing up imperfectly.

  • Sisterhood

    Sisterhood with safe women is one way to show yourself it’s safe to be seen. Practice showing up authentically, calmly, and without needing to fill the space with women you trust. Fill your cup this way, often.

  • Processing

    Bunnies need daily time to process their emotions in authentic ways. Set 20 minutes a day to journal and hold nothing back. Get it all out - all the things you want to say. Burn it afterwards, you’ll feel lighter.

Fictional characters with your relationship archetype:

Daisy Buchanan (The Great Gatsby), Jules (Euphoria), Carrie Bradshaw (Sex and the City), Jen Lindley (Dawson's Creek) — all proud Bunnies just like you!

Where This Pattern Started

Bunnies are often raised in a home saturated with other people's unmet needs—caregivers too busy with work, other siblings, addictions. You had to compete for their attention. If you needed something, you'd have to make a scene... and maybe a part of you liked the rescue. Even if it made you feel messy, at least you were no longer alone. All children need parents who pay close attention and see below the surface. Without that, you learned the equation: rescue = love, and without it, you're alone again.

Why This Feels Difficult To Break

In creating chaos, you lost touch with yourself. You create chaos to avoid feeling—and you're very good at this—hoping that one day someone will stay and teach you: you are worth more than the messes you create. Who are you without mess? What if no one is ever truly coming? Face down the emptiness with the security of your current reality. You are an adult now. You're not alone. You're in control. Your healing comes when you learn to sit with yourself—even when it feels unbearable.

Not sure where to start?

I recommend starting with these products, based on your relationship archetype, Bunny.